Laugh together. Stay together.
It is so important to laugh. Often. Life gives us lots to laugh about. If we choose to see the humor in the chaos. Humor is the capacity to perceive, appreciate, or express what is funny, amusing, ludicrous, etc. in any situation. If you look closely enough, there is a certain amount of humor in […]
Don’t be so predictable.
Predictability has its place. At the same time, everyone appreciates a little novelty and surprise every so often. A little playfulness. Do surprising things that make married life less predictable, more playful. Every relationship, without exception, needs excitement.
Laugh together. Love together.
Life has its stressful moments. No doubt. And, humor and laughter help us cope. “If you can find humor in anything, you can survive it.” Being able to see the humor even in the toughest situations helps us tackle our problems with a more positive outlook. Even when you’ve had a tough day – or […]
Goofy competition.
Sometimes, it’s the little, silly competitions that lighten the mood and bring laughter into your marriage. No need for anything fancy—just a moment of play can reset the tone and remind you both of the joy in your relationship. For example, try flipping bottle caps to see whose bounces the furthest. It’s goofy, but a […]
Playful teasing.
We are not talking about taunting or belittling. It’s that playful ribbing that creates bonding. It’s gently poking fun at personal quirks you find entertaining and endearing. Teasing is great because it shows that you really know your partner inside and out and that you love their greatest attributes and biggest flaws equally. Laughter and […]
Inside jokes.
Inside jokes are little treasures that make your relationship uniquely yours. They come from shared experiences, funny moments, or quirky habits that only the two of you get. Maybe you recall a time when you both got lost on a trip, or when a cooking experiment turned into a hilarious disaster. Those are the types […]
Compile a master list of activities to enjoy together.
Creating a master list of activities you both enjoy makes planning quality time easier and more enjoyable. Start by individually jotting down activities you’d like to do together—whether it’s exploring new hobbies, visiting places of interest, or trying out new experiences. Next, compare your lists and highlight activities that overlap or spark mutual interest. This […]
Create a list of Date Ideas.
One evening when you can’t get out, plan your next dates. Create a list of things you would like to do when you have the opportunity to go out. (Ideally, on a shared Google document so you can each add to it as a new idea comes to you.) Start with places and activities that […]
Exploring their world, deepening your bond.
Sometimes, your spouse might suggest doing something that isn’t quite on your radar. It could be visiting a new place, trying a different activity, or attending an event you’re not initially enthusiastic about. Instead of hesitating or suggesting an alternative, consider taking the opportunity to step into their world. Even if it’s not your first […]
Be interested in and willing to try your spouse’s interests.
Showing genuine interest in your spouse’s passions, hobbies, or new pursuits does more than just show you care—it helps you understand them on a deeper level. Ask questions about what excites them and what they’re passionate about, even if it’s something you don’t completely relate to. When you take the time to listen and learn, […]